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No Hidden Agendas and no BS
Age 54 From Pretoria, South Africa - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Man Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English, Other
I Would Describe Myself As  
Hi Lady. I consider us being discrete about our relationship the most important. Secondly but no less important I consider having “fun” with you as an outflow of us trusting and enjoying each other on other levels.
I am different in the sense that I am a feelings/kinaesthetic person opposed to a visual person. So yes I do appreciate a good body but what I appreciate more is the way you as a person make me feel about you. That will include your mannerism and what we can enjoy of each other, rather than just having “fun”
Yes I can be like an animal where appropriate but I am not an animal at all.
I am here because I may be here due to agreement with my partner on this issue which make my setup vastly different. I do not have to sneak around myself.
That said I miss intimacy in its simplest forms. The closeness to each other and the other persons heartbeat and breathing. The “I want you” look from the other person.
I am with somebody I respect but I need to be with somebody who can understand my being fully mentally and physically.
On a lighter note, I can use all my god given instruments my mouth, fingers and others. I am not a prude and would love to satisfy you in many ways. I know if I give you what you need you will be able to give me more and a bit :-)
Sign  
Cancer

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is  
5' 9 (1.75 m)
My Eyes Are  
Hazel
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is  
Married
I Have Kids  
No
I Want Kids  
Yes
My Best Feature Is  
Smile
My Hair Is  
Brown
I Have One Or More Of These  
Dog
Willing To Relocate  
No

Status

My Education Level Is  
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
Full-time
My Speciality Is  
Other
My Job Title Is  
Solutions Architect
I Make This Much In A Year  
More Than $150,000USD
I Live  
With Roomate(s)
At Home  
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker  
Yes - Trying To Quit
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is  
Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Flirtatious, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Reading, Learning, Movies, Internet, Family, Dining, Theater, Cooking, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
My heart jumping out of my chest as I approach you sitting sipping your drink. Then when we talk it feels like we have known each other for a hundred years. The feeling is mutual and we decide to cut short the night and to have a conversation right through the night till early morning. Chatting and playing with each other just simply having fun.
I've Always Wanted To Try  
not doing the obvious. To grow further every time as I already do:-)
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Perfect, Goofy

Views

My Religion Is  
Christian
I Attend Services  
Once A Year
My Political Views Are  
Very Conservative
My Goal In Life Is  
To be myself more and more and grow with each breath I take. To make more than a decent living and to be able to enjoy life to its fullest. To dream the impossible dream always.
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Slapstick, Raunchy, Sadistic

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, I Don't Like Tv, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Country, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, New age, Dance
When I Read, I Always Read  
Ancient, Auto-biography, Biography, Business, History, Mystery, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Religious, Science, I'm An Author
My Idea Of Fun Is  
I have many ideas of fun in different contexts. In this scenario it would be to get to know you. Spoil you a bit and then to explore each other as time goes by. Now time is relative to the trust we found in each other obviously.
I love like everybody beautiful nature, dining, movies, conversations, sometimes just being still with each other.
My motto:
There is no pressure over cappuccino.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?  
A discrete relationship which will involve fun, discreteness, experimentation and trust, also an understanding that I will not leave my wife. We do have an agreement and as long as I am able I will keep to it.
I want us to be able to ourselves with each and not to bar each other by simplistic rules which will be applicable or not. You will see I marked most of what kind of relationship I want. It is on purpose to indicate that I am not a prude and do not expect or foresee any specifics.

What I would like however is when you walk away from me in future you would say to yourself that is an experience not to be repeated in my lifetime.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Doesnt Matter, Friend, Date, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Bondage, Just Wanna Fuck
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